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Thank you so much this helped me tremendously. I appreciate you doing this 🫶🏽

I had an accident and cannot use my right hand for 10 day… I was showering one handed and thought “would be amazing if there were tutorials for one handed people 🌝 thanks for this!!! Love your content

My arm is broken and in a cast so this was very helpful ❤

I broke my arm this week and relearning how to live has been incredibly overwhelming. THIS VIDEO GAVE ME HOPE! Thank you!

thank you sooooo much from italia

I feel so seen. I'm glad I found your page.

I just broke my arm you’re so strong Ty

Thank you for this! I fractured my shoulder from an accident and I couldn't use my right arm for a few basic things. This helps so much!

I absolutely love this & I am so glad I found you, thank you ❤❤

Just had hand surgery and this was SO helpful!!!!! THANK YOU for such a great video and easy to follow steps ❤️

Thank you it may it so much easier for me with my broken wrist.

I responded on Megan's other two Stages of Grieving. As to Bargaining I guess I spent a few minutes on that phase...but only a few. My wife died of a sudden stroke (at 56) which we later found was induced by her taking PremPro for an extended period. Anyhow, the night before she had the stroke we attended two wedding receptions and it was obvious that she had a mega-headache, but she was from Germany and whining is not part of the German vocabulary. So I did nothing about it. Later if I "bargained" it was asking myself if I should have done something for her knowing she had a headache. But that would have been giving her a couple of Advil at most. And that is the most she would have accepted. Neither of us would have thought to go to the ER. So I did not have very many bargaining avenues. So I guess I more ore less skipped that, too. The other two "stages" which Megan has not filmed yet are "Depression" and "Acceptance." In my first interview with my PCP after my wife died he interviewed me for an hour and half and at the end said, "Jim, I can't detect any clinical depression though you may have situational depression (which is why he sent me to the Grief Counselor), so you need an adult to talk to." I had a lot of blue days in 2001, but none were depression and I never felt like ending it all. "Acceptance" is emerging from the fog and realizing that "you made it through". When that realization sets in, there can be situational euphoria. For me it took at least 9 months (which they say is about right for a death). Megan says she took three years; for an attractive young woman, I think she did very well since a woman is an aesthetic being and this tragedy changed her aesthetic forever. I thank her for this series. I believe the Kübler-Ross model is spot on and I would "counsel" anyone in a grieving situation to get a counselor and have that person lead you through the long tunnel to recovery. But it does end.

In my comments after Megan's 1st grieving video I spoke of having a Grief Counselor. After we had met for 3 weeks she said, "Jim, I think you're doing well but I have one big concern." What's that? "You don't seem to be angry." So we spent the next three weeks digging into why I was not angry. After that period she relented and said, "I've practiced for 30 years and have not seen this before, but I am accepting that you really aren't burying any feelings about anger." I think at this stage my left brain kicked in (I've usually been measured with brain function right down the middle) and I said, "Jackie, for me anger must have an object. I have no idea who I should be angry with. I'm not angry with her (my deceased wife) because this was not her idea. I am not angry at God because her death was the natural consequences of a mortal world. I'm not angry with myself because I certainly didn't cause this. So exactly who am I supposed to be angry with. IF you'll give me someone to yell at...believe me I"ll yell...but there is no one. And unlike the coyotes around here (I was in Texas) I don't think howling at the moon does much good." End of chapter on my Anger. Megan's story is different. No two grieving experiences are alike. She had elements of her life suddenly changed from which there was no return. BUT, interestingly, I can remember telling friends, myself, that death was like an amputation...eventually it heals and you get around...but there is always something missing. 23 years later I still feel the same.

I have lost two wives to relative sudden death. So grieving is a real thing. Some people think it is the opposite of faith....not so. They are separate things. Faith can help with grieving, but grieving is independent of any switch that you can turn on or off. My PCP recommended I go to a "Grief Counselor" (that is a thing) so I did. I spent about 2 1/2 months with her and I think it helped a lot. As with most counseling, the patient does most of the talking and the counselor is short on advice. I moved through denial quickly but death is something that we are much more wired to accept than the sudden destruction of a young female body. So that Megan should spend much more time getting through that stage is only to be expected. I had been married to my 1st wife for 32 years and we had four children. A teenage daughter was left at home and the two of us needed much more from the other than the other could give. 2001 (the year of her death...1/1/01) was a bit of a waste but I healed through that year. My grief had a literal end whereas a sudden loss of a limb gets brought up every time Megan looks in the mirror or takes a shower. She is remarkable to have gotten through it all in even 3 years.

I know you made this over 6 years ago, Megan, but (apparently for a first effort) you did it so well. I can't imagine having to go through your trauma @ age 14. That is when "aesthetics" become the center of your life and "popularity" is what people live for. So to have that happen to you....wow....yes, I'm sure the grieving was even more intense than the physical changes. I am old enough to be your grandfather (and then some). I have been widowed twice and thus understand THAT dimension of grieving....but that heals after a few months....whereas you carry around a constant reminder, so I can imagine that it goes on, for you, in quiet alone moments. God bless. PS: Yes, I have guardian angel stories of my own. The pinched artery is classic !!

So very helpful!! I'm having wrist surgery and will be in a cast for over a month. I almost shaved my head until I saw your video!

Thank you. 🥹❤

What kind of person will "Enjoy" your tragedy that's foked up. Anyway you are beautiful wish you would marry me

Thank you for this tutorial. 3 days ago I got into a pretty bad accident and I have long hair. I'll be giving this a whirl. God Bless ❤

Thank you ! X

Hey! I'm laying in bed at an adult rehabilitation center after being in hospital for 3 weeks, I'll be here for a month. I had my left arm amputated. I have been through a whirl wind of emotions. I finally off the meds and its 3am and i don't know how I'll move on. Im at my low point for the first time. I'm scared. Thank you for posting. This is the first video i have even watched. I need this.

OMGG I'm born amputated of my left arm and this helped me soo much !! Thank you soo much i love you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

Awesome tips, especially regarding zipping a jacket up - thank you!! I know what you mean by no patience with OT. I lost patience with them as well on some things, figuring out other, easier ways to do them...

thank you sooo much. I always wear a bun and no one fixes my hair right. My boyfriend is the only one who gets it tight enough for me.. but now I can do it without help.

I broke my right arm 2 days ago, I live by myself and was with a very low self esteem for not being able to take care of my hair properly. I was struggling trying to tie it and was almost giving up when I found your video. Thank you so much for sharing!!! The wall method worked perfectly 😭🙏💖

All of your videos are very helpful. I am not an amputee however due to having cerebral palsy I only have the use of 1 hand. Through the years I have learned how to use the techniques you use for dressing, tying my shoes as well as doing my hair. Sure wish I had these videos years ago when I was young.

You're hot!

Thank-you!!! 🙌😍 Like so many people here in the comments….. Injured arm & in plaster. Can’t believe it took me 2 weeks to think of googling “how to…..” You’re a life saver…. My hair has been driving me crazy 😂😫🤗

Thanks for sharing

Thankyou so much for this video...I fractured my shoulder and don't have anyone around me to help with tying my hair...I felt so hopeless and desperate this rlly helps thankuu

Thanks so much for this. I live alone, & I broke my arm & wrist recently. I will be in a cast up to my elbow for 2-4 mos. My hair is crazy curls, & wind is my mortal enemy. I've been so frustrated trying to get all of my hair in one hand, & have only managed really sloppy ponytails. But I'm excited to try your methods - especially using the bed. Thanks again! And btw, your hair is beautiful. You are beautiful.

Thankyou

You are remarkable!!! Thank you so much. God bless.

I’m a newcomer, (and old) but I love your attitude, your projection, yes, your professionalism and to get a bit personal, you have a beautiful smile and I would be remiss and dishonest if I neglected to say “wow” you are a picture of perfection. If you ever wander thru NC on I95, I’d love to buy you and your partner a cup of coffee.

Thank you so much ❤

Megan, I'm so sorry this happened to you so young but I want you to know that I appreciate your how-to videos. I'm 62 and only have the use of one arm. I'm growing my hair out because a short 'do requires a lot more styling and two hands, you have already helped me a lot. I appreciate your tutorials!

Very bold counselor. Nowadays you'd have to be afraid of being me tooed or accused just for being alone with a woman.

Cool, I close my pants on one handed the same way

You can hold the bottle in one hand and twist it open with your thumb and pointer.

Very inspiring to us amputees. I just discovered this six years later. I hope pray the best for you!

thank you so much! I have a very badly fractured elbow from a biking accident pre-surgery, and cannot move my arm without extreme pain. it is a very humbling experience only having one arm. this was very helpful. God bless you Megan 🙏❤‍🩹

I’ve been without the use of my left hand for 40 years (since I was 15). For some reason, I never thought to look up ass accessibility videos until now! I’ve been managing fine, but struggle with things like curling my hair. Thank you so much for your content!

I broke my right arm and am desperate to put my hair up. Thanks so much for the great video ❤❤

Way more badass than me

I'm curious about how feel about a potentially touchy subject. If you could have a non-work in arm would you keep Ur just for aesthetics or have it removed? It's something I've been debating for while just wondering your opinion

Broke my collarbone, people are having a hard time helping me with my hair, thanks a lot for this video!

Thank you this helped me so much as I just had surgery on my left hand

Thank you Megan, you have made it so easy for me to learn. I appreciate you taking the time to help others 🥰

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